Jia Yin heard that her stepfather had this in mind, she was both happy and sad.,After the old woman, Li, held her hand and spoke to her at length for half the evening, the rest of the time was spent weeping.,The lord flung open his long robe and sat down, raising a hand to pour himself a cup of warm tea. He pushed it toward her and replied, "We married because we were happy with each other. What does it matter if we don't follow the customary rules for our wedding"。